Reminiscing – September 2001

In 2001, Rick and I lived in Edgewater, Maryland. Making the trip up north wasn’t as easy since we lived 10 hours away from the Detroit area. However, my dad had taken my Aunt Ariel back home as her last wish and we wanted to spend some time with them.

Ariel had been diagnosed with cancer the year before, at age 80. She moved into a home we shared with my Dad and Brandon in order to receive better medical care in the metro-Detroit area. I was living in Maryland so I was only around one week a month. Dad became Ariel’s round the clock caretaker. He went beyond what any brother would do. After Ariel’s leg was amputated, he helped nurse her back to health. When the cancer returned, he honored her last request and moved with her to Huron Beach for her final months. She died in December 2001.

 

 

Humming along

Marsha and I were swimming the other night, and she brought up something that had also been occurring to me…even the most irritating things Dad used to do have become a fond memory for both of us.

Memories of grandpa on a car trip…he hummed constantly.

It didn’t matter what the music was (well, maybe not Bran and Linz’s satan music). He would half hum, half gloss over the words throughout the entire trip. Cher was his favorite, and I would often play CD’s that included her songs when we rode across the country from Michigan back to our house in Maryland.

Marsha remembered all the trips up north with him, not only singing, but also reading every road sign along the way.

He irritated us sooooo much. God, I wish he was here to irritate us some more!